Above picture credit: Karol Makula Photography at Lochgreen House Hotel, Troon
Unity Candle Lighting During Humanist Weddings
The unity candle lighting ceremony is a popular symbolic gesture in weddings worldwide, representing the union of two individuals and their families. While it has roots in religious traditions, it has been beautifully adapted for humanist wedding ceremonies, emphasising love, partnership, and unity. In this blog we explore the history of the unity candle lighting, its significance, and how we, at Fuze Ceremonies, incorporated into our humanist wedding ceremonies in Scotland.
History of the Unity Candle Lighting Ceremony
The unity candle lighting ceremony has origins in many cultures around the world, symbolising the merging of two lives into one. The act involves the couple each taking a lit candle (representing their individual lives) and together lighting a larger, central candle (symbolising their united future). Over time, this ritual has becoming a meaningful addition to various types of wedding ceremonies, including humanist weddings.
Humanist ceremonies focus on the human experience, personal values, and the couple’s unique relationship. The unity candle lighting has been adapted to fit these principles, emphasising the love and commitment between the partners and their hopes and dreams for the future.
Incorporating Unity Candle Lighting in Humanist Weddings
In Scotland, humanist weddings have become increasingly popular due to their personalised and inclusive nature. The unity candle lighting is often included in these ceremonies to symbolise the couple’s commitment to their shared future. Here are some ways this beautiful gesture can be performed:
Who Can Get Involved
Sometimes, parents or other family members are invited to light the individual candles, symbolising the support and love from both families as the couple begins their journey together.
Above: Example of both mum’s lighting their son and daughter’s individual candle then the bride and groom light their main unity candle.
Music and Readings
Background music or a meaningful reading can accompany the lighting of the unity candle, enhancing the emotional significance of the moment.
Blending Cultures
For couples from different cultural backgrounds, elements from both traditions can be incorporated into the ceremony, reflecting the unity of not just the couple but their diverse heritage.
Nature-Inspired
Given Scotland’s stunning natural landscapes, many humanist weddings are held outdoors. The unity candle lighting can be adapted to include natural elements, such as lighting the candles from a bonfire or incorporating stones and flowers.
Conclusion
The unity candle lighting ceremony is a cherished tradition that beautifully symbolizes the union of two lives. In humanist weddings, it takes on a new meaning, celebrating love and commitment in a deeply personal and inclusive way. Whether held in a grand venue or amidst the breathtaking Scottish countryside, this ritual adds a magical touch to the ceremony, making it a memorable and poignant moment for the couple and their guests.
For more inspiration and guidance on planning a humanist wedding, feel free to reach out to our dedicated team of celebrants who are passionate about creating meaningful and unforgettable ceremonies tailored to your unique love story.
About Us
Here at Fuze Ceremonies we are dedicated to providing personalised and meaningful humanist ceremonies that reflect the values and beliefs of each couple. Our celebrants are experienced and passionate about creating unique and memorable weddings that celebrate love, unity, and the human experience.
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