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Here at Fuze Ceremonies, as Scotland’s leading experts in humanist wedding ceremonies, our experienced Fuze celebrants have guided thousands of couples through unforgettable days and we regularly hear the same misconceptions. So here are the top 10 myths about humanist weddings, well and truly busted.

1. Humanist ceremonies aren’t legal

Busted! In Scotland, humanist weddings with authorised celebrants such as our Fuze celebrants team, are fully legal and binding. You can have your ceremony anywhere, any time, and leave 100% legally married!

2. Humanist ceremonies are anti-religion

Busted! Not true. Humanist ceremonies are non-religious, but they are never anti-religion. At Fuze Ceremonies, our focus is on celebrating love, life, and human connection in a way that’s inclusive and respectful of everyone’s beliefs. Many of our couples have mixed backgrounds or families with religious faith, and our Fuze celebrants are skilled at creating a warm and welcoming space for all guests, no matter their views. A humanist wedding simply offers a personal and meaningful alternative for couples who choose not to include religion in their ceremony, and that choice is always made with respect, not opposition.

3. You have to write your own vows

Busted! It’s totally up to you. Many couples love writing personal vows, but if you’d prefer help, our Fuze celebrants guide you through options, phrasing, or even craft the words with you for a stress free experience. Equally if you want to leave this part out then say your personal vows to each other in private.

4. Humanist weddings aren’t professional

Busted! Humanist doesn’t mean informal, it means authentic. Whether you envision a polished, elegant ceremony or something relaxed, fun and heartfelt, your Fuze celebrants designs it to match your vision with warmth and expertise.

A beautiful Iranian ‘sugar cone’ ceremony conducted by our Fuze Celebrant Simon Houston at Cambo Estate – photo credit: Bernadeta Kupiec Photography

5. You can’t include tradition

Busted! Quite the opposite! We frequently weave in beloved customs and cultural traditions such as handfasting, quaich ceremonies, sand blending, or even ring warming. Here at Fuze Ceremonies we excel at blending those traditions into a modern, personal ceremony.

6. You can’t involve your family and friends

Busted! Inclusion is at the heart of what we do. Here at Fuze Ceremonies we celebrate with involvement. From readings and rituals to stories, music, and symbolic roles for loved ones. It’s your day, your way, shared beautifully with the ones you love most.

7. Humanist ceremonies are all the same

Busted! No two are alike. Every ceremony is crafted from scratch by your Fuze celebrant, reflecting your story, values, personality and the unique tone you want for your wedding to take.

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8. Planning a humanist ceremony is too complicated

Busted! Our couples say the opposite. it’s often the easiest and most enjoyable part of their wedding planning they say. With the expert guidance of Fuze celebrants, mapping out the ceremony is creative, fun, and completely supported and never overwhelming.

9. Humanist ceremonies aren’t long enough

Busted! Humanist weddings aren’t short or rushed unless you want them to be. Our Fuze celebrants work closely with you to shape a ceremony that feels full, rich, and just the right length for your day. Most Fuze ceremonies last around 20 to 30 minutes, but every element is meaningful, personal, and memorable. It’s quality time, not filler time, and it always leaves a lasting impression on your guests.

10. You need to identify as a humanist

Busted! Not at all! You don’t have to label yourself. As our Fuze Ceremonies FAQs explain, if you value kindness, respect, equality, and compassion,  you probably already share humanist values without realising it. And you definitely don’t need to join any club or society with us at Fuze, to have a deeply meaningful humanist wedding ceremony.

Final Thoughts

At Fuze Ceremonies, we believe the ceremony should be the highlight of your wedding—warm, personal, and unforgettable. Our expert Fuze celebrants have delivered thousands of five‑star ceremonies across Scotland, bringing your story to life with passion, care, and authenticity. So if you’ve heard any of these myths before, now you know the truth. A humanist ceremony with Fuze isn’t just an alternative—it might just be the perfect choice for your wedding day.

Add our smiles to yours

No two couples are the same so no two ceremonies should be the same. At Fuze we work alongside our couples to make their humanist wedding ceremony script is unique, personal and bespoke. It’s your day your way with us, so let us add our smiles to yours. Click our logo below to check your date and celebrant availability LIVE 24/7.